Learning to Pray- God, please help

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God, please help… for many of us, it’s our first prayer, our first time reaching out to God. It comes in the midst of tears or as a whisper in the night or a cry of anguish when we are in way over our heads.

Help, I lost my job
Help, I’m losing my mind
Help my kid to love me again
I’m so lonely, help me
I don’t know what to do, help
Help, I have cancer
Help, she’s going to leave me
This pain is unbearable, help me
Help, I can’t do this
help, I can’t stop doing this
Help, I hate my life

We don’t have to be taught how to ask for help. We’re born knowing how. We know how to cry out for a diaper change, or a bottle, or to be burped. Help! It’s as natural as breathing.

But somewhere along the way we grow up and start taking care of ourselves. We start buying into the myth we can become educated enough, rich enough, powerful enough not to need help.

The truth is we all need help. We will always need help.

Even Jesus asked for help. He often went off alone to pray so we don’t know what he said then. But we do know what he prayed on the Mount of Olives in Gethsemane the night before his death. (Matthew 26) He was vulnerable and honest in asking God for help and asking for help from his companions.

In her wonderful book Help, Thanks, Wow: Three Essential Prayers, Ann Lamott said, “There’s freedom in hitting bottom, in seeing that you won’t be able to save or rescue your daughter, her spouse, his parents, or your career, relief in admitting you’ve reached the place of great unknowing. This is where restoration can begin, because when you’re still in the state of trying to fix the unfixable, everything bad is engaged: the chatter of your mind, the tension of your physiology, all the trunks and wheel-ons you carry from the past. It’s exhausting, crazy-making. Help. Help us walk through this. Help us come through. It is the first great prayer.”

The truth is we all need help. We will always need help. When we know this and accept it, asking for help can again become as natural as breathing. In the asking, we realize God is already there, close as breath.

So let’s learn to pray by re-learning to pray.
It’s not important how you say it.
Just say it – real, raw, honest.
It’s as easy as finishing a sentence-
God, please help…

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Learning to Pray- God, please help © 2019 Lisa Ann Moss Degrenia
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Prayer- Merciful One, We Call

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Merciful One,
We call on your wisdom,
your power to bring unity and clarity

We call on your light,
to reveal the path and show the way

We call on your courage
to help us do the right thing even if it’s hard

We call on your protection
from all that is evil, false, and self serving

We call on your mighty and beautiful name,
our Rock
our Joy
our Provider
our Savior
our Love
Amen

This prayer was written for a congregation as part of their prayer vigil before a big ministry decision. I pray it will be helpful to you as well. To God be the glory. – Lisa <><

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Merciful One, We Call © 2016 Lisa Ann Moss Degrenia
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Sermon Series Recordings: Help, Thanks, Wow- The Three Essential Prayers

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Sermon Series: Help, Thanks, Wow- The Three Essential Prayers

Inspired by the book of the same name by Anne Lamott

Message 1 of 3: Help! – 3 Essential Prayers: Help, Thanks, Wow
Scriptures: Psalm 40:11-17; Matthew 26:36-39
Offered 07/20/14 at Trinity United Methodist Church, Sarasota FL

Message 2 of 3: Thanks! – 3 Essential Prayers: Help, Thanks, Wow
Scriptures: Philippians 4:4-7; Psalm 105:1-7; Isaiah 12:2-6
Offered 7/27/14 at Trinity United Methodist Church, Sarasota FL

Message 3 of 3: Wow! – 3 Essential Prayers: Help, Thanks, Wow
Scriptures: Isaiah 6:1-8; Exodus 3:4-6; Revelation 4:8-11
Offered 08/03/14 at Trinity United Methodist Church, Sarasota FL

I’m excited to now offer mp3’s of my Sunday messages. A huge thank you to Leon and my brothers and sisters at Trinity United Methodist Church, Sarasota for all their help in making this possible. If you’re ever in Sarasota, please drop by for worship Sundays at 9am or 10:30am, or drop by during the week for a chat or small group. You and those you love are always welcome.

© 2014 Lisa Ann Moss Degrenia
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Prayer: End the Madness (Matthew 2:16-18)

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Day 30 Reading: Matthew 2:16-18
Herod’s Genocide

He gave orders to kill all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity
who were two years old and under
– Matthew 2:16

Prayer: End the Madness
Hear our cry!
Head our plea!
Death is at the door
Evil is taking the day

Fear makes us crazy
Relief supplies rotting on the docks
Vaccines waiting on shelves
Riots in the streets
Abortions of convenience
Human trafficking
Suicide bombers
Genocide
War

End our madness
Deliver us from bloodshed
Deliver us from us

Come quickly
Come in power
Your power, not ours
Rescue your beloved
Lord, where else can we go?

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This post is part of the 2014 Bible Reading Plan for Christmas. Click here for more information, including a list of all the readings.

Prayer: End the Madness © 2014 Lisa Ann Moss Degrenia
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Prayer: Far From Home (Matthew 2:13-15)

door-with-key2014 Bible Reading Plan for Christmas
Days 27 and 28 are set aside for worship and rest
Day 29 Reading: Matthew 2:13-15
Run For Your Life

An angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said,
“Get up, take the child and his mother,
and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you;
for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.”
– Matthew 2:13

Click Here for an insightful reflection by Rev. Magrey deVega on the 2015 refugee crisis in the context of Scripture and the Christian tradition. It’s entitled Jesus was also a Refugee.

To live in the world without belonging to the world summarizes the essence of the spiritual life. The spiritual life keeps us aware that our true house is not the house of fear, in which the powers of hatred and violence rule, but the house of love, where God resides. – Henri Nouwen, Behold the Beauty of the Lord

Prayer: Far from Home
Like Mary and Joseph
Circumstances beyond our imagining
Beyond our control
Take us far from home

Jesus, you are with us
You are our help and home

Like King Herod
Our desires for security, pleasure, and power
Lead us down destructive paths
Take us far from home

Jesus, you are with us
You are our help and home

Like the Magi,
Quests for wisdom and direction
A truth we can trust
Take us far from home

Jesus, you are with us
You are our help and home

No matter where we find ourselves
There is a future, with hope
Because Jesus, you are with us
You are our help and home

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This post is part of the 2014 Bible Reading Plan for Christmas. Click here for more information, including a list of all the readings.

Prayer: Far From Home  © 2015 Lisa Ann Moss Degrenia
You are welcome to use this work in a worship setting with proper attribution.
Please contact Lisa for information and permission to publish this work in any form.

For more information on the art and the use of this post in other settings,
please refer to the copyright information page.